Good fortune arriving at one’s doorstep is hardly a common event to witness. In Kharren Gomez’s (aged 16) case, however, just the exact thing happened and quite literally at that.
In 2004, when Kharren left Don Bosco Alabang and its informal education system, the American Chamber Foundation surprised her and her family when, right in their house, it presented her with an invitation for a scholarship grant. Living in a family with seven siblings, and being the third from the eldest, Kharren explained that, “financial issue was the major factor, of course, in grabbing the opportunity for the scholarship grant. I felt really happy when I got the scholarship. Now, it helps me a lot in my everyday expenses at school. In a way, it also eases the financial difficulties of our family.”
It was not only financially that AmCham was able to extend its assistance to Kharren. In several of her classes, she was ahead of her classmates because the lessons have already been covered by some of AmCham’s seminars. “My student life is wonderful because of AmCham. The topics we talk about during seminars get discussed in some of my classes as well; for example, reproductive health. When questions about it were raised in class, I already had prior knowledge, so among my classmates, I was advanced,” Kharren proudly shared. “Sometimes, I do feel pressure when studying, though. But that’s just in school. AmCham doesn’t pressure me,” she added.
Among the activities she has attended, Kharren found the youth camps and peer education the most memorable. “We were tasked to do activities for the monthly meetings. For instance, before the start of classes, we held activities on encouraging the students to go to class and study harder.”
More than the backing of AmCham Foundation for Kharren’s education, personality development is one asset she truly treasures. Kharren, with ringing laughter, revealed, “At first, I was totally quiet around here. I was shy but not anymore; I’ve changed. Now, it’s like I’m all out! I’m able to bond with other people, especially with other scholars.”
In terms of her family, she developed a closer relationship with her mother: “Before, I don’t talk with my mom that much. That changed as well. We now have times when we talk a lot about ourselves and family.”
As for personal changes, Kharren stated, “I remember there was one time in the training room when the facilitator asked us to give something that would symbolize our goals. He asked us to search for it in the room while we were blindfolded. It took me quite some time to find mine, but when I got it, he threw it away again! In the end, the message he was trying to convey was something like, ‘This is your goal. You’ve got it but it suddenly slips away. What are you going to do?’ That got me thinking a lot. I value myself more than ever now. I try my hardest to reach whatever goal I set and hold it with me.”
Finally, expressing her gratitude for the foundation that once entered her door, she addressed AmCham, “Thank you, because it was through you that I deepened my knowledge and enhance my talents. Thank you, because you’ve already provided me with a lot of help. Thank you.”
——Judith Ann Ochengco
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